FAQ
HOW DO I PREPARE FOR A READING?
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Have an open mind! Sometimes people come through who you may not expect such as neighbors, teachers, classmates, old friends, a friend’s sibling or child.
Remember, it takes three! There are three people who make a reading work. The sitter (you), the reader (me) and the communicator (spirit). We all need to work together to make communication happen.
Make sure you are somewhere quiet, where we will not be interrupted during the reading.
And most of all, be excited, not nervous. Positive energy will help. There's nothing to be afraid of, these are your loved ones you are connecting with. It's an amazing and sacred experience that is taking place. Enjoy it.
ARE READINGS BETTER IN PERSON?
Readings can be done over Zoom, Skype or phone and are just as good as meeting in person. Our loved ones are always around, you do not need to physically be with a medium for a successful reading to take place.
CAN I HAVE A FREIND OR FAMILY MEMBER JOIN ME IN THE READINIG?
Yes, they can but I believe its always better with one person. Sometimes when there’s more than one person in a reading their loved ones can come through and it will not be the one you were looking to hear from. So basically, there’s a possibility that the person who comes with you may get a reading instead. Just be aware that it can happen but doesn’t always mean it will.
DO YOU RECORD THE READING?
I do not record the readings, but I encourage you to take notes. Some information may not make sense at the time, but you may later discover why something was said.
WHY DIDN'T THE PERSON I WANTED TO HEAR FROM COME THROUGH?
Unfortunately, I can’t guarantee who I’ll connect with during a reading. Usually there’s a reason why a particular person will come through. Perhaps you were just talking about them, maybe one of their loved ones was going through a hard time, or maybe they just wanted to wish someone a happy birthday or anniversary.
Here are a just a few reasons why a person you were hoping to hear from didn’t show up in a reading.
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It may not be the right time for communication.
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They're not energetically compatible with the reader (the medium). We need to connect energetically in order to have communication. As in life, sometimes you just connect better with certain people than others. The same thing can happen during a reading.
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I may pick up on the spirit who has a larger or louder presence, instead of the one who was a bit shy, reserved or quiet.
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You may end up being a "messenger". Sometimes you can be the messenger for someone you know. For example, you really want to hear from your grandfather, but your neighbor’s deceased child comes through to make sure he wishes his mom a happy birthday instead.
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Your reading maybe seen as the only opportunity to say hello to someone who’s connected to their family or friends.
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Sometimes they are just not around. I do believe they can be busy with other things in the spirit world. They are not "on call" all the time.
WHAT IF I DON’T WANT TO HEAR FROM SOMEONE AND THEY COME THOUGH DURING A READING?
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This is rare, but it has happened. It's been my experience that the person is usually coming through with an apology but if you are not ready or don’t want to make a connection, please tell me and I will move on and see who else is there for you.
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HOW DOES THIS WORK?
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I wish I knew! I don’t think anyone will ever100% know how mediumship truly works. But I do know that it is love that connects us. “Love is the force or vibration that transcends time and dimensions”. And that is why I wouldn’t be able to connect with someone like Elvis, unless you two had a relationship.
Love is the key to mediumship. I find it to be powerful. It never dies.
Keep in mind that “spirit” uses my memories and experiences as a way to relay information. This can affect what type of evidence that comes through to you. Every medium has different life experiences, so each of us will only receive information we can relate to.
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That's why I usually suggest trying another medium. I am always happy to recommend some for you. Please don't hesitate to ask. All I wish for you is to leave a reading knowing that you are not alone, and that life does continue.
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